The Tools

Why are you here? No really.. Why are you on my website reading this blog post? Let’s face it, you have no tools for dealing with life. That is why you are seeking a coach (at least that is why I sought out mine!). It’s a humbling place for a guy to sit back and…

The Nice Guy Pick Up Artist

It’s summer and you are all alone most nights. Friday night is Netflix night, Saturday night feels dark because you know it’s another chance to face the loneliness. Some might have plenty to do during the day. Friends, activities, sports – these make the daylight hours tolerable. But those same friends have girlfriends or wives…

Old Wounds

The worst we can be ignorant. There is the old saying “ignorance is bliss” and for the Nice Guy this can be very true. Sure, he might feel that something is “off” but so long as there is no awareness to what the actual problem might be then, all is well! When I read No…

Contrast

As a photographer and filmmaker, I think often of color space and contrast. Actually if you ever see my video work, I work alot with contrast in post production. There is something to an image to me that has great highlights and crushed blacks that delivers a deeper looking image.   While I was shooting…

Disruption

Aloha. I am in Hawaii! I have two great passions in my life. Helping men re-write their inner story and storytelling. I am here in Hawaii doing the latter for a big paddleboard race serving them as a video producer. It’s really a gig I dreamt of having a long time ago. And then one…